First date is special event in anyone’s life. Sometimes the future of a relationship that has not yet begun is clear right away. You can ignore such calls and wait for them to turn into an alarm, but this is the way to nowhere. In general, read and do not say that we did not warn you.
A guy leads you to his favorite sports bar, and during a date he pays more attention not on you, but to the guys running on the TV screen.
When you were unable to completely capture the attention of a man on a first date, you can assume that everything is clear with his priorities.
If the game interests you exactly the same as him, then no problem. If this state of affairs makes you feel like a member of a knowingly losing team, think about whether to give your relationship another chance and agree to overtime.
You went to a cool restaurant, famous for its burgers, sushi or pizza. Your companion orders a dish as far from the specialization of the institution as possible, and then it annoys that the chef does not have his hands out of his shoulders.
Communicating with those who prefer, let’s say, unhandled paths is quite fun, but only for the time being. When the path leads to the wrong place, your gentleman will begin to look for the guilty.
But how could it be otherwise, after all, everything around is guilty of his wrong decision, but not himself.
In general, if you want to take the role of a scapegoat at every opportunity, choose such a man.
Call number 4
You and the young lady come to a fashionable coffee shop, place an order, and she overcomes the barista with endless demands and comments on what kind of coffee she needs.
When all wishes are satisfied, the girl begins to suffer from the fact that the foam is not thick enough and soy milk is too hot.
Fear people rolling out a long list of waiter requirements. The chance is great that the list of as yet unannounced wishes to the partner will be just as long.
Anyone who wants a steak to be cooked at a temperature of exactly 60 degrees, expects from the partner the same attention to his desires and desire to please. Let him wait further.
Call number 5
A man gently looks into your eyes and laughs at your jokes, he is a nice, empathic person – in a word, an ideal candidate to go on another date with him.
And then she suddenly admits that she is seriously worried about the recent break with the girl. He calls himself a rather sensitive guy, but the whole meaning of these words is revealed to you only after a careless admission that the “recent” breakup happened 11 months ago.
The interlocutor finishes with recognition that your smile, hair or laughter reminds him of this fcuking ex.
Everything is clear here – the guy clings to the past so much that he simply is not capable of looking into the future. If he seeks solace in you to forget about feelings for another, this is a complete failure.
Trying to win your heart with sincere interest and care is one thing, but winning sympathy with talk of a former passion is a completely different story.
At the first date, the girl begins to tell how she hates her mother, work, ex-boyfriend and everyone around.
People usually tell about themselves things that they think you should know about. When the young lady immediately starts into revelations about her inability to build normal relations, run as fast as possible and further. Otherwise, it will all end with the fact that she will complain about the bitter fate of the next victim, mentioning your name in the list of failures.
He calls in after you, and your dog begins to bark in response to the doorbell. You calm her down, but the young man demands to put a muzzle on this beast. Feline hiss is enough for him to say: “I hate cats.”
Your puppy may be the cutest creature in the world, but re-educating someone who doesn’t like dogs is impossible.
If already at the stage of dating the guy shows his disapproving attitude towards pets, you should not expect that the pet and lover will make friends.
Call number 8
The guy physically cannot concentrate on talking with you, eating, a movie or music without having to check his smartphone every two minutes .
What is so interesting is a big question. Maybe he is looking at what score the match he is interested in has ended, studying the exchange rate or making an appointment with other ladies.
The ability of a man to focus on your potential relationships during the first date, when you are just trying to establish communication, clearly shows how emotionally he will be involved in them later.
During a meeting, a partner constantly wonders if you have fun, whether it’s too cold, whether you like a restaurant, whether your drink is tasty enough, wouldn’t like to go somewhere else … A wake is not a mushroom, it’s such a person.
He is so fixated on your feelings and sensations that he becomes uneasy.
It is clear that each of us wants to please others, but when a guy or a girl tries too hard to please, there are serious problems with self-esteem. If you don’t want to spend your whole life vainly proving that your beloved is wonderful, your relationship is excellent, and you simply idolize him, think about whether to go on a second date with a person who has a love for everyone.
Call number 10
The girl talks about her views on politics, religion, human nature, money – anything, but her opinion and belief are radically different from yours.
Of course, not all disagreements are dangerous for a relationship, but if you hear an alarm from some of them in your head, you should trust your intuition.
Remember that trying to change a partner is not the same as being with a person who himself wants and is ready to change.
He is rude. Rude to your roommate, your mother, everyone you meet. You can do without rudeness, but no – even the restaurant administrator gets it, because some scoundrel dared to put a couple at the table earlier than you.
First dates are quite serious stress, but if your boyfriend reacts so positively, what will happen when something unpleasant happens?
Call number 12
She orders the third “Whiskey Sauer”, barely finished the second one, or does not drink emphasized, but closely watches every glass of beer that waiters carry on other tables.
As an option, it constantly sticks in the smartphone, even during a conversation with you.
Hi-hi, this is addiction!Unhealthy concerns about an empty glass and envious glances at the people who drink around are a sign of a confused relationship with alcohol.
There are studies proving that the habit of constantly checking how things are on social networks, whether there are new letters and SMS, also refers to dependencies.
It is very difficult to overcome addictive behavior, keep this in mind before the relationship becomes serious.
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